Hi guys, what’s up what’s up people. How you doing, my cuties and cupcakes. It’s your baby girl Consy Constance Adione. Your one and only baby girl with so many talents attached to her name.
Guess what, I will be penning down my opinion concerning this controversial topic that’s extremely sensitive to a lot of people. Personally, I find it unrelatable simply because someone has paid the price so I didn’t get to feel much of the heat like the people of the the old and that alone won’t make me take this movement for granted regardless of my opinion.
Early this October I published a children’s book named The Greatest Gift that I dedicated to every child who lost a parent on the way and to the girls who fought their way through school. Which I also talked about raising awareness about the importance of equal opportunities for girls, girl’s health and their safety and protection. Funny enough, I happened to write this book to inspire people through words and creativity. Honestly, I would like my works to be beyond content creation and community engagement.
I believe there should be more to all these things we do, the message we pass across should be able to stand the test of time. I mean, when my name is mentioned you should know what that means because am out here transforming stories into impact. You know, when we put out any pieces together. We should be making things that are not easily trashed for continuity and history path, a rare gem which is what is bringing me for today’s talk, “feminism”.
This is the first time am openly discussing this and am convinced, feminism is a worldview that women are not inferior to their male counterparts. However there are responsibilities that are gender maximized regardless of both gender being able to get results. This is to say that we can’t undermine each gender roles in any given situation because we all matter. For example having your parents train you is different from having a single mom or dad train you but that doesn’t mean the child won’t turn out well. All am I saying is, there’s a gap for each parent to fill in there child’s life.
Speaking of feminism in today’s world, I feel a lot of narrative has been created to twist the actual meaning of this word. In order words, being tagged a feminist can mean the worst depending on how you’re being perceived right? But now, the reverse is the case. I feel like the word has been polluted enough for me to want to disassociate myself from it in terms of public discussion. Haven’t been a fan of being labeled a feminist neither am I interested in being called one but it won’t stop me from being myself or standing for what I believe to be the right thing to do.
Action speaks louder than voice when you voice aren’t heard so don’t just scream feminism online with a bad approach without actively doing nothing because you want to trend or desperately get the government to listen to you thereby spoiling the message built around this word," feminism ".
I believe being working to become an influential man or woman that sits at the table of where decisions are made should be the goal of every person that actively claims to be a feminist. Because being a feminist is not just by mouth, is by showing workings. You know, when you come out and say something worthwhile, people will listen and the same goes to office you want to lay a complaint to.
So please let’s stop all these online embarrassment that takes away the credibility of being a feminist. Quick one, am not saying you shouldn’t air your views online because it all starts from lending our voices right? My take is to do it responsibly without denting the image of the actual feminist pushing the movement forward.
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