Hi guys, your baby girl is back with another juicy gist for us. You know, what’s up what’s up people. It’s time to take you on a ride to have a peak on what’s popping in my life.
First, I want to give you a short story that relates to what am about to say. A colleague of mine was asking another colleague of mine if they are friends. Honestly, when I first heard the question from her. I laughed and felt how could she even think of asking that to someone she has been close to for awhile. But she said, you’ll never know. She can be thinking they’re friends while the feeling isn’t mutual so she needed to be sure. Fine, I got the point and I was like. Yea, it’s true oo. You fit Dey relationship with person May the person no Dey there with you.
That being said, clarity isn’t a bad thing at all no matter how stupid it may sound. It’s better saved than being lost especially for things that can’t be fixed if it happens to go bad. And I feel this goes to every aspect of our lives cause clarity will save you from a lot of troubles.
Honestly, I don’t know why people underestimate the power of communication cause this thing can mar or make you. If you pay attention to public figures you would notice that they don’t joke with PR in order not be misunderstood. So the end point is clarity, passing a message in a way that you can heard for what you actually meant right?
Now back to me, my colleagues find it funny sometimes when I ask questions. They feel I ask unnecessary questions like: you ask me to help you get something and I would be like: ok, this..( then repeat what I think I heard) so because of that it kinda affects every other question I ask whether unnecessary or not if you understand what I mean.
This got me thinking to know what the problem was…could it be because of my ear issues (find it difficult to hear sometimes) which I never told them. You know, it’s uncomfortable to always tell people about stuff like this and I don’t usually like to talk about it either. For me, having to ask questions like that is for confirmatory purposes and not just clarity. However, i still do not feel the need to explain myself to my colleagues for some obvious reasons but I chose to pen this down for tomorrow as I hope never to lose this part of me that seeks lucidity.
You know, this is me also encouraging you not to be coerced into someone you’re not … you know what I mean shaa, leadership is not for the weak so if you must take up that role be ready for this.
Bye
