Monday, April 29, 2019

The Best Way To Follow Your Kids And Teach Them About Relationship, Sexuality Before Adulthood: When is it time to teach your kids about the facts of life?

Honestly, children needs parental support especially at younger ages, and parents have the primary responsibility for educating their children about their bodies and sexuality before adulthood. Am aware how uncomfortable it can be to discuss those issues and I understand that feeling, that is why is easier and better to start early while you can keep it simple.

Parents needs support and I believe that is why is included in the school system to educate children on sex education but it doesn't mean that parents shouldn't leave that only to the school because the basics should be taught to the children by their parents to show that they care and understand whatever changes that is going on their body.

Personally, I have noticed that a lot of African parents don't discuss that with their children tho not all parents shaa but mine didn't, that's why am talking out of experience and from what I have observed so far.
Neglecting this aspect of life in the family doesn't not affect some people but it still does affect some other people especially the females and this is one of reasons why am depressed sometime ago but am glad things are falling in place and am fine.

Recently, my mom started opening up to me, trying to have this conversations with me but it doesn't really make me feel better or interested because I didn't get it when I needed them the most(her support to educate me) unlike now that am matured enough to have gone through that stage(puberty and adolescent) of my life.

Most people don't know how necessary and important this education is,the impact this knowledge makes in a child's life whether boy or girl, if not it shouldn't be neglected, especially not in this present times.
This communication helps to make your children to have body confidence, knowledgeable and comfortable about sexuality while growing up.
Having an honest communication makes the parent and children's bond stronger and creates a comfortable atmosphere that makes the children to trust and confide in their parents,and this helps in avoiding misinformation from peers and social media because they check out with their parents.  (This is the major reason, ignorance is a disease neither it's an excuse)




When Is It Time To Teach Your Kids About The Facts Of Life?


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A lot of people are scared and confused about what and what not to teach their children at a particular age or stage of their life. Am fully aware of how necessary it is to be careful of what your children learn at their tender age because that is what they will grow with or turn out to become later in life if they weren’t changed.

Most people ask this question, “How do you know when it’s time to teach your kids about the facts of life?” From what I witnessed and observed in the society, I don’t think there is any perfect time to teach your kids about the facts of life, especially the vital things which is their Spiritual life(religion and moral values) social life( love life,society, family and friends)  and financial life(career, profession), they all need to balanced and not deficient in one.

I believe the best way is just to follow your kids according to their age and what they know in order to correct and teach them what you want them to know about life and this involves free communication with your kids. And if you don’t create that atmosphere for discussion or avoid letting them know your opinion on whatever topic because you feel is not necessary then you’re giving room for peer influence and some other things.  Teach a child to choose the right path,and when he is older he will remain upon it proverb 22:6. Even the bible recognises this fact of nurturing a child tenderly because that’s when a child’s attitudes and characters are shaped.


Honestly am not surprised to hear someone say, ” am not ready to be a parent yet or am scared of what my children will become in future “and so many other comments because is not easy to nurture a child without trying to make decisions you feel that are best for your child in order to avoid making mistakes about your child’s life that she will regret and blame you later in future. For example, I noticed that most parents don’t teach their children about sex education because they feel they don’t want to spoil their children so they are not comfortable discussing that, but the truth still remains that it is necessary to avoid wrong perceptions. Obviously, whether you teach them or not they will get to know about that somewhere else or somebody else, and I feel is better they get that knowledge from their parents earlier in life for them to be careful than making mistakes act of ignorance.

The link below is one of article in my blog about virtue and virginity.http://travelwithcurrent.blogspot.com/2018/11/virtue-weighs-more-than-virginity.html

Finally, i don’t have much to say neither do i want to keep writing or bore you with words  because i feel this article is clear and concise. Am ending this article with my last comment,”keep teaching and keep learning, it never ends.”



Friday, April 5, 2019

My Business Plan 2019: One of the most important documents of any business and it's benefits.

Virtually every entrepreneur's business vision needs a clear and detailed business plan because having a good idea is not just enough without penning it down to shape your ideas for easy formulation and execution.
Once you decides to make the commitment to start up a business of your choice and of any kind, the next thing in mind is to plan and draft out a business plan of whatever you intend doing. Lack of proper planning and implementation is one of the most reasons why some business fail.

As it's said, failure to plan is planning to fail.

Having a well documented and strategic business plan that defines and focuses on your business ideas should be the first aim of any organization, company or entrepreneur because that is one of the most important documents that directs and leads the business in implementing the strategic plan to make your business idea work, it also speaks and represents the business.

There are benefits of having a  well documented and strategic business plan as an entrepreneur which i mentioned a few earlier. Business plans are mostly written to obtain additional funds whether to raise money for business by securing investors or capitals from financial institutions.
Having a plan helps you recognise some pitfalls or mistakes in your business which calls for amendments.
It's also a way of convincing yourself and other people how serious and determined you're with to take off with this business.

Honestly, creating a business plan involves a lot of thought and time to put things together. Some many things are considered like what you actually wants to do,what you want to accomplish and your aim or goals of achieving this depending on the kind of business you're venturing into.
 There should be short term and long term goals for a start tho the plan can be amended with time.

I first wrote my business plan early this year when I participated in one online giveaway(360mobile.com) on Instagram that I was scammed because it was one of the requirements needed that was why I wrote my business plan. I have a blog already before then, but I didn't see it of any importance to have a business plan till that giveaway tho my financial plan wasn't really detailed in the plan because it was based on the giveaway.

Below is the PDF file of my business plan.
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1J3J-o6juwBWlrBU4XqFMtdWD-XDSsxIJ/view?usp=drivesdk


Finally, am only advising business owners and up coming entrepreneurs to have a business plan because it helps especially for beginners in directing and focusing on their ideas which can later be adjusted with time in the plan for improvement and a better results.